“Reflection is good for the soul, they say; well, now it’s my turn…”
Those lyrics from “Your Mercy,” a song by blessed, have been playing in my head as 2025 came to a close. Blessed is a great word to describe my life.
At a recent Christmas party, we paused casual conversations, gift opening and games to look back on the year and share highlights from each month. As I reviewed photos, notes and recalled memories, I felt proud and excited. I tried to be better about sharing monthly highlights on Instagram, and they were a good resource as well.
Katie Wheeler Library Rose Garden
January
I experienced the joy of snow days in Louisiana as my siblings and nephews called on FaceTime, playing in the snow, making snow angels, having snowball fights and enjoying a rare winter wonderland right in their yards.
February
The Genesis Invitational is an exciting work event I get to experience each year as it raises funds to support TGR Foundation’s education programs, raises awareness for our organization's impact and gives our students and alumni opportunities to learn from professionals, experience a PGA TOUR golf tournament for the first time and practice their public speaking skills as tee announcers.
After devastating fires destroyed much of Los Angeles and the surrounding neighborhoods, the tournament was moved to San Diego at the Torrey Pines Golf course. Tiger’s mom, Tida, also passed away unexpectedly. The week was a rollercoaster of emotions. A bright spot was having my girlfriends make the trip to experience it.
March
I took an impromptu trip home during the local school system’s spring break and participated in one of my college best friend’s daughter’s christening and attended a program hosted by my aunt in celebration of Women’s History Month. I also participated in my first sewing class at the Anaheim Public Library. After hearing about special memories from each of my grandmothers of the skill that was passed down from their moms, I wanted to grow beyond basic stitching. The class was the first step. I didn’t get much practice afterward, but I’m not done with the journey. :)
April
My maternal grandmother turned 90 years old, and our family celebrated all weekend long with a concert, picnic and Sunday church service together. It felt nostalgic, and thinking about it still makes my heart smile. I also took a horseback riding lesson from one of my cousins on his horse, Lucky. The weekend was definitely the highlight of the month, with memories that last well beyond the year.
May
Forever Daughters is a community of women who have lost their moms who come together each year on the Friday before Mother’s Day to reflect, mourn and share wisdom. This year, my cousin Deedy joined me for the first time, and it was a great moment. In the spirit of growth, I also tried planting flowers. Although both eventually died, the joy in trying was worth the effort.
June
I experienced my first golf lesson during a mentor social for fellow members of the Earl Woods Scholar Program. Although I took a gap, I eventually resumed lessons and now golf is in my goals for 2026. I’m planning to grow in skills and confidence to play in 4 foursomes by the end of the year. I also spent extended quality time with my nephew, Blaise, in Louisiana during his summer break. Over the course of our week together, he participated in an art program at my sister’s gallery, Lynk Art Gallery, in Franklinton, LA. After the program, we filled evenings with various adventures, including visits to family and friends, a trip to the library, a campus tour of my alma mater, his first time in a college stadium and much more. I cried tears of gratitude when it was time for me to return to SoCal. I will always cherish those summer memories, and I hope he will too. :)
July
I finally made an appointment to have my first colonoscopy done. Because my mom passed from colorectal cancer at 41, it’s recommended 10 years before her diagnosis. Although I was behind, I was relieved to get it done. Colon cancer is one of the most treatable forms of cancer if caught early. Preventive care is extremely important.
August
I took my first trip to the Bahamas to celebrate my brother’s birthday and stepped outside of my comfort zone to “swim with pigs.” I don’t even know how to swim, and I didn’t want to be anywhere near a pig. Although I’m not glad I did it and wouldn’t do it again, I am proud of myself for going through with it.
September
My first visit to Philadelphia exceeded my expectations. I arrived a few days before the ribbon-cutting of TGR Foundation’s second TGR Learning Lab on the Cobbs Creek Golf and Education Campus for work. I packed in as many solo adventures as I could before work began. Highlights of the trip were a night out at South Restaurant, First Friday at the Philadelphia Museum of Art and food at the Reading Terminal Market. In addition to those, seeing the Lab for the first time was exciting. I was literally shaking with excitement as I entered the building and walked the halls and classrooms, seeing everything in person. Everyone in Philly was extremely kind, welcoming and hospitable. I hope to visit again soon.
October
I celebrated my 33rd birthday with friends and family, with a return to Louisiana. My birthday wasn’t the only celebration that week, but I was grateful that the timing allowed me to experience several moments in one trip. My alma mater, Southeastern Louisiana University, celebrated its centennial; my mom’s family held a family reunion and my sister celebrated her grand opening. I was able to be a part of all of it, and my heart was happy.
November
After three months of heavy travel, I was able to rest and recenter in November. One of my friends, Lauren, invited me to be a guest speaker at her elementary school’s career day, and I never say no to opportunities to engage with youth. It was an immediate yes and a great experience.
December
Christmas is my favorite holiday, and this year, for the first time, I experienced services at my home church, Mariners Irvine. I volunteered for the first time in the “Bridge Program” for elementary students who will transition to Junior High Ministry, where I’ve been serving since 2019. Last year, our immediate family spent Christmas in Houston, TX, with my brother and his family. Returning to the traditions I’ve experienced since I was a little girl was awesome. I also saw the Nutcracker ballet for the first time.
2025 was a great year, and I’m looking forward to everything in store for 2026.
Have you documented your year-end reflections? Whether online, in a journal or aloud, I encourage it. Although 2026 is here, it’s not too late. I’d love to hear some of your highlights.
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Hugs & Handshakes,
Jasmine C. Tate