Facing Rejection by Jasmine Tate

Rejection is never fun, but you can always learn something from it. I have had eight interviews for five positions within the last two months, and I feel like I’m becoming an expert. Keep reading to learn ten practices I now make sure to incorporate into the selection process. Some may have cost me previous roles; others have led me to offers for positions that weren’t right for me.

 

 1.      Be prepared.

Do your research. Know as much as you can about the position and responsibilities. Seek future challenges you may face, if selected, and be aware of tasks you will be able to complete with ease. Evaluate your strengths and weaknesses. Know what is on your résumé, and be able to speak about steps you took to achieve success as opposed to positions you have held. Plan ahead and arrive fully prepared at least five minutes before the scheduled meeting. 

2.      Smile and be confident.

A smile exudes confidence, and employers want someone who can provide this quality in their work and representation of the company or organization. Don’t be arrogant.

3.      Communicate beyond words.

Your body language and handshake say a lot about you and your attitude toward the company and position. Always give a firm handshake, and watch your posture; speak positively with your hands and facial expressions. Don't forget to listen; it's a major component of communicating that people often forget. Active listening will also help when you reach number eight. 

4.      Showcase your personality.

Don’t be so focused on impressing your interviewers that you forget to be yourself.

5.      Bring physical copies of your résumé and portfolio.

Don’t walk into your interview without a portfolio complete with strong work samples that showcase the experience you’ve gained and what you can contribute to the company and team. It also helps to provide access to a digital portfolio. Have several copies of your résumé in case it hasn’t been printed; keep in mind that there may be more than one interviewer.

6.      Be comfortable incorporating your passions into conversations.

Make sure your interviewers can see your passions through your explanations. Almost all interviews I’ve had start with “Tell me a little about yourself.” This is when your elevator speech comes in handy. You don’t have to say “My passion is _____.” Talk about enjoyable activities, experiences and how you’ve fulfilled your passions through previous positions. 

7.      Always ask questions.  

Not asking questions will likely kill your chances at advancing to the next round of interviews or securing the position. I try to prepare five questions at a minimum. You don’t have to ask all questions that you prepare, but having more to choose from will save you if some of your questions are answered before you’re given the opportunity to inquire about the company or role.

8.      Follow up.

Send hand-written and email thank you notes. It’s never too soon to send a thank you note. I try to send an email within 30 minutes after the interview ends and mail a thank you note immediately after. This lets the employer know that you appreciate their time and consideration. If there has been a significant amount of time without any connection, reach out to the employers. Do not follow up without having something to talk about other than the job status; reference a topic discussed in the interview and add to it. It also helps to keep up with the organization and know what's happening. This shows that you are genuinely interested in the company rather than joining the employment circle. It can also allow employers see you as a member of the company. 

9.      Don’t take rejection personally.

The decision for the position is not about you. It is ultimately about the role and the best person to fill it. Employers often have a lot of applicants and factors to consider when choosing a new candidate to join their team. In some cases, the decision is made before you are contacted.

10.  Be optimistic.

Never doubt your ability to excel, instead, realize that the position was not meant for you at the time or there’s a better company or position still waiting for you. Maybe it hasn’t opened yet. Be patient.

 

The best thing about having the opportunity to interview for a position is knowing that you are qualified. The worst part is the possibility that the position may not be meant for you and better for someone else. Although many professionals advise against taking interviews for practice, when you have the opportunity to interview and don't land the job, use it as practice for the next one. 

What are some tips and tricks you use to get through interviews or some of the most interesting questions you’ve been asked? Share below.

 

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Jasmine C. Tate

 

Inspiring Future Entrepreneurs by Jasmine Tate

While “Retaining Inspiration” last week, I discovered notes from the first guest blog post I wrote for the University of Alabama’s PRSSA Chapter.

The blog was a recap of one of my favorite sessions of the PRSSA 2016 Regional Conference targeting aspiring entrepreneurs. In the session Rick Looser, president and chief operating officer of the Cirlot Agency in Jackson, MS, provided Seven Tips on Entrepreneurship as a Young Professional. Check out the blog and some "Real World" exclusive quotes below. 

 "It’s not enough to love flowers… You’ve got to hate weeds."
 "Money doesn’t make you anything but more of who you are."
 "Become memorable to the people that matter."
 "Be an excessive note writer; nothing replaces a personal note."
 "Don’t let the urgent overtake the important."

Following the session, I met Looser and had the opportunity to visit Cirlot for a PRSSA Agency Tour.

Left: Looser and I at the PRSSA 2016 Regional Conference in Tuscaloosa, AL. Right: Deonica Davis, Cirlot Graphic Designer,  D'Anthony Jackson, PRSSA Member, Lauren Neighbors, Cirlot Public Relations Strategist, and I gather in th…

Left: Looser and I at the PRSSA 2016 Regional Conference in Tuscaloosa, AL. Right: Deonica Davis, Cirlot Graphic Designer,  D'Anthony Jackson, PRSSA Member, Lauren Neighbors, Cirlot Public Relations Strategist, and I gather in the lobby prior to a USM PRSSA Tour. 

Are you pursuing entrepreneurship? What is the best advice you've received? Share below. 

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Jasmine C. Tate  

Retaining Inspiration by Jasmine Tate

Public relations and communications organizations provide many resources to help their members achieve success. While networking and building relationships with new and seasoned professionals are my favorite elements of membership, there is a priceless value for the inspiration provided from being surrounded by others who have a passion for the industry you love and a genuine desire to impact it and the world.

As I organized documents from the Public Relations Student Society of America and Public Relations Association of Mississippi events this year, I became motivated again by the words of several speakers.

Here are eight golden nuggets to embrace this week. Enjoy!  

“A true professional  doesn’t do what they do to make money; they make money because they do what they do.”

-          Jon Williams, Professional Speaker   

“Find something that you’re passionate about and have the passion to do it.”

-          Rick Looser, Chief Operating Officer | Cirlot Agency

“Work hard, pray hard, and when the door opens, walk through it.”

-         Dr. John E. Forde, Professor and Head of the Department of Communication | Mississippi State University

“Career is very important, but its only one piece of who you are; do something to invest in yourself every day.”

-          Paula Kerger, President and Chief Executive Officer | PBS

“Everything we do is more impactful if we do it together.”

-          Megan Burkes, Associate Director for Public Relations and Donor Programs | The University of Southern Mississippi Foundation

“Apply understanding before you start talking.”

-          Bruce Andrews, Deputy Secretary of Commerce | US Department of Commerce

“The only time you look in your neighbor’s bowl is to make sure they have enough.”

-          Louis C.K.

-          Referenced by Jacqueline Lee, Editor | Dime Entertainment

“All of our dreams can come true if we have the courage to pursue them.”

-          Walt Disney

-          Referenced by Marshall Ramsey, Editorial Cartoonist | The Clarion-Ledger

What are some of your favorite scriptures, quotes or advice you live by? Share below.

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Jasmine C. Tate 

Quarterly Review by Jasmine Tate

Each week I get more excited as I review analytics of my blog and discover new and returning visitors. “Welcome to the Real World” is near the end of the infamous “probationary period,” and I am beyond grateful for the support I have received thus far.

In celebration of its upcoming three-month anniversary, I would like to reflect on some of my favorite posts and request feedback for the future of the blog.

It all began on Thursday, April 14 and continued with weekly content. After launching, I began to reflect on my academic career throughout the last five years.

I’ve shared the professionals who have motivated me and helped me achieve success. I’ve shared tips for “Narrowing Focus,” reasons to pursue graduate studies and the emotional roller coaster of earning a master’s degree and the job search process. I’ve shared my journey, personal insights and quality advice gained along the way.

The Wait,” “A Trip Down Memory Lane,” and “The Secret to Success… Revealed” reached record numbers of viewers and engagement.

This blog has provided motivation to remain connected with the public relations industry and emerging trends. It has also given me an outlet to express my thoughts and share advice and inspiration with others.

My favorite post of them all is “The Secret to Success… Revealed” because I discovered a revelation in the process.

Please take a few moments to complete the brief questionnaire below. I look forward to your comments. 

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Jasmine C. Tate